Today is one of those days I should have stayed in bed. I wish people would stop telling me that I should leave my husband. It seems that most of my family does not like Robert. I don't like my Step-father but I don't tell my mom that she should leave him. We may have to move to Indiana, though I really don't want to if we have to we have to. Robert is afraid that since most of my family wants me to leave him that I will. No matter how many times that I tell him that I am not like that. He still seems to think that I will leave him. Robert thinks that when it comes down to it if we have to move out of state and if my mom says that if I don't leave Robert she will never talk to me again that I will leave him.
I know my husband is not perfect, but, most people are not perfect. I can tell you that I am far from perfect. In fact most people I know are not perfect and they are not in my life because I want perfect people around me. I love the people in my life because I love them for who they are flaws and all. I hope my mom does not make me choose between her and my husband because my husband will win.
I started this blog because I wanted to keep a record of my thoughts and whats going on in my life. I also, thought that maybe there would people out there who would be able to give me insight to my life. I can't imagine that I am the only one in the world that is going through something similar.
I know my mom gets mad because she worked so hard to hep me kick cancer's butt when I was a kid and it seems my body to already trying to give out. The important thing about all that is the fact that I am here. My body may be broken but I am here I have three beautiful daughters that I could not be more proud of.
Is anyone out there reading me???????
You don't know me and I don't know you. I just stumbled upon your blog. But I believe that we are all thrown in and out of one another's lives for a reason, I feel compelled to respond to your thoughts the same way I would respond to a friend confiding in me. If your husband is abusive or a negative force in your life, I would encourage you to see what your family sees, and is worried about. My father was abusive, to the evil extreme, but my mother would not admit it. You can imagine the damage he was allowed to cause us in my first 10 years of life. That being said, if he is not, then perhaps your family needs to accept your choice and possibly risk losing you and your kiddos. If your husband has his family at heart and maybe has made some bad decisions in an attempt to improve life for you all, then I would hope that you could remain strong and at his side. If your family simply does not like him, and he is not abusive, then an ultimatum on their part is selfish to say the least. I wish you the best in whatever the future holds for you. Truly, I do.
ReplyDeleteDebMarie,
ReplyDeleteThank you for your comment. I have a wonderful husband who like all of us has made some bad decisions in his life. I will always remain by his side. Reading you story that you told me has compelled me to comment. I hope you will follow my blog. I agree with you that we are all thrown into each others lives for a reason. Here is my Email address Kristievans60@gmail.com maybe we could be pen pals.